On Twitter, take what you like an leave the rest. Or simply “unfollow.”

I also think that self-censoring before tweeting runs counter to the spirit of the tool. While you may get tired of the “what’s for lunch” tweets, many people may find them interesting and even endearing. I personally like those kinds of tweets; they reassure me that I’m hearing from a real person, and they encourage conversation. Imagine how quickly your friends would grow tired of you if every time you met with them you only said things that you thought would be useful to them? Twitter is a way of connecting with people.

I must say, too, that I’ve noticed a bias on your part for using Twitter–well–”usefully.” For example, you’ve mentioned on Twitter before the election that you didn’t like to see the very political tweets. I find it interesting that you then used politics as an example of why someone might leave. You also mention religion (which is a subject most individuals avoid like the plague anyway), as well as the “what you had for lunch” posts. Are you really saying that these are the subjects that you personally like least to see?

Finally, what value is there in finding out why people left you? I listened in to Warren’s “army of followers” podcast, and he also mentions that you shouldn’t worry too much about what you tweet, because people are going to find these things out about you as they get to know you–even if they are business contacts. I think that trying to tailor your tweets by second guessing why individuals stopped following you defeats the purpose of Twitter and will make your tweets rather dull. And THEN people will really stop following you.